Jacqueline Hudkins
Widow, Military Mother, and Family Advocate | March 4, 2025
I am writing to share my family's deeply personal experience with Kelly Cox, a Certified Child Life Specialist (CCLS), and to urge you to consider the importance of licensure for CCLSs in Texas. My name is Jacqueline Hudkins, and I am a widow and a military mother to two young boys, ages 6 and 9. Our family's journey was forever changed in November 2023 when my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic melanoma and passed away just 55 days later. Our children were only 5 and 7 at the time.
When my husband was hospitalized, Kelly Cox was there for us—providing invaluable emotional support not only for my children but also for me as their mother. My boys, already struggling to adjust to our new life in Texas after our recent move, were further challenged as I, a military mother, had been separated from them and their father for three months prior. They were suddenly faced with their father being hospitalized, diagnosed with cancer, and, tragically, the loss of their beloved daddy. The weight of all those events would be overwhelming for any adult, let alone young children. I was at a loss for how to help my children cope with such immense grief and find a way to explain everything to them in a way they could understand. Through it all, Kelly was a steady presence, offering me words of wisdom, comfort and ways to explain what was happening. She also gave my boys the emotional guidance they needed to navigate their grief, their fear, and their confusion.
Kelly didn't just help my children in the hospital. She continued to provide support long after we left that hospital room, helping my boys process the loss of their dad, assisting them in understanding their feelings, and helping me as a mother know how best to support them. She helped our family through one of the darkest, most uncertain times in our lives, and I can't imagine how we would have made it through without her. She is, and will forever be, one of the biggest blessings of my life.
What Kelly provided to my children and our family was not just a job to her—it was a calling. Child Life Specialists are a vital part of any healthcare team, yet, in Texas, they remain an unlicensed profession. The absence of licensure for CCLSs means that families like mine may not always have access to the critical support they need when facing the most challenging circumstances.
The emotional and mental health of children going through medical crises, loss, or transition should never be left to chance. Licensing would ensure that families can trust that the professionals helping their children are not only qualified but also held to the highest standards. CCLSs like Kelly should be recognized for their expertise, and Texas children should have the assurance that those providing emotional support in healthcare settings are thoroughly trained and certified.
I implore you to support the effort to grant licensure to Child Life Specialists in Texas. My family was fortunate to have Kelly's expertise and compassion, and we are better for it. There are countless other families who deserve the same level of support in their time of need. Please consider lending your voice to the cause of licensure for CCLSs in Texas. Your support could make all the difference for families who, like mine, are navigating the unthinkable.
